As You Wish
Set aside an evening for one of you to be completely pampered. The giver lavishes their complete attention on the receiver—via massage, mouth, hands and toys—expecting nothing in return. (If the giver gets way too turned on or whatever, they can jerk off after, but AFTER the other person is beyond fully pleased.) If you’re being the kind one, prep ahead of time by setting out candles, really nice lube, a toy or two they might like. Send your partner a photo of your bedside table filled with what awaits them. If you are the pampered one, let yourself fully enjoy your partner’s touch—you are not allowed to reciprocate, so it’s a great exercise in just relaxing and receiving.
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