Pillows are secret sex toys that live right there on your bed. Whether you use a specially designed sex pillow or wedge or just your regular old pillows sitting there looking so innocent, a strategically-placed pillow or two can make a huge
difference in how things feel. If you are unsure of exactly how slutty you want your pillow to be, here’s an array of pillows
from sexy (because they keep you cool at night) to sexy (because they’re full-on sex pillows.)
“Pillow = heaven. From a boost in your back, to underneath your head, or a cushion for your knees, a pillow can be a support to making your sexual experience more pleasurable,” says Casandra Henriquez, dating and relationship coach.
Where should you put a pillow or two? Wherever the F you want. The main point is getting body parts where they need to go, whether that’s getting the perfect angle that makes oral sex feel amazing or just making it easier for the person giving that oral sex. “At the end of the day, the key is to be as comfortable as possible. Place pillows on every point of your body that needs support. This way you can completely relax and enjoy the intimacy,” says Katie Lasson, a clinical sexologist and sex, intimacy and relationship advisor at Peaches and Screams.
If you require more pillow guidance than “put ’em wherever,” here are some ideas:
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Stack pillows high on the edge of the bed and lie your upper body down on them, recommends Rashawn Brewster, MS, LMFT, Co-Founder and Co-Owner with wife Lori of Elevating Relationships couple to couple counseling. Press your legs together to make it better, for you and for you partner if they have a penis. “The pillows pressing against her stomach while her legs are together, create an extra snug fit for the lucky partner from behind,” says Brewster.
“If your partner isn’t particularly well-hung, you might prefer this alternative to doggy-style,” says Ashley Harris, a sex and relationship Coach and author for BeyondAges. Lie on your stomach with a pillow under your stomach and a pelvis and press your legs tightly together. “This will increase your vagina’s tightness, providing a more snug fit that you’ll both appreciate. You might need another pillow to scream into!”
Tuck a fabulous vibe between two pillows, press your knees on either side and kneel over your buzzy love. Ride your hand’s-free lover solo or give your partner a show they will immediately add to their jerk off reel’s greatest hits.
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The Half Pipe
Make a cylinder of pillows and straddle it. Put your favorite vibrator on your clit and press against it against the pillow—it’ll stay in place. Your partner kneels between your legs and slowly slides a finger inside one (or both) of your holes. Let them feel the squeezes of your orgasm around their finger because you are good like that.
The Deep Plunge
See what a difference geometry can make by propping some pillows under your butt during regular old missionary. But not just a few pillows, a ton (like, throw-pillows-on-a-department-store-display-bed amount), so your hips are even with his penis. Slide your ankles up by his neck and he can give you the kind of deep penetration that will make your eyes roll back in your head. If you can rouse yourself, feel free to self-stimulate as you wish.
Valley of Fire
Make a pillow valley with big stiff pillows under his back, then more under his bent knees and thighs. He sits in the little sex valley between. You get on your hands and knees straddle the other big stiff thing (dick joke!) facing away from him. Removes the usual weird angle issues of reverse cowgirl and adds more precise internal stimulation.
The Rampage is kind of like making a grown up-pillow fort, but sooooo worth the extra set-up time. It’s extra good for men who are not huge down below because they won’t slip out, plus they have a free hand to stimulate you with hand or toy.
The Deep Dog
Put a wedge/heap of pillows at the edge of the bed (careful, now) but instead of lying over with your hips, prop yourself on your knees. If you fit, stretch down to steady yourself on the bed with your hands. He enters standing for a sensation akin to doggie but so….much…more.
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