Best Blowjob Positions – How to Give the Perfect Blow Job

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Blow jobs are usually about something that the other “gets,” but it can be a super sexy experience for you too. It’s completely powerful to feel someone grow hard in your hand, then take them to the edge and through an orgasm by just using your hands and mouth. That’s all super heady (er..) and all that, but it’s even better if you get an orgasm in the deal in as well. I mean, you get the orgasm which is all fabulous on it’s own, but your blow jobbery will magically get better because you’ll be in the same sexual space as your partner, translating into a more passionate experience all around.

If you’re among those are not that into Bjs (super normal, fear not), you are of course perfectly free to take it off your To Do list. Or, if you want to give it another go, check out these ideas for if you don’t like swallowing, if you’re sketchy on deep throating, or if you just don’t know what to do and need some helppppppp.

If you are already happy with you BJ positioning thankyouverymuch, but just want to bust a new move or two, here are 10 blow job tips women swear by, plus the classic corkscrew blowjob. And if you want a penis-side view of what works, see also: 10 guys on their absolute favorite blow job techniques (extra beneficial if you happen to have your mouth on the dick of one of those 10 guys.)

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The Duck and Cover

If don’t like to swallow, set expectations in a stealth and not unkind way by saying something like “I want you to orgasm on my…” whatever, boobs, stomach, left elbow. Keep the communication going throughout (watch their body, listen to their breathing, just ask how close they are, etc…) to make sure their Life Force goes where you want it to. For this, try a more traditional position so you can help direct the flow. (A wearable vibrator will put this position over the top for you.)

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The Face F*ck

For a more hard-core, power dynamics situation, your partner can straddle your face and, basically, give themselves a blowjob by thrusting into your mouth. If this is too much–and it totally can be!–curl your hand around their shaft as a buffer to control how deep they go. With the other hand, you can masturbate or use a toy (BTW: A thrusting toy is great here ’cause it kinda mirrors what’s going on with your mouth).

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“Lier’s” Poker

If you are feeling lazy yet generous, bring the task at hand to you by sitting back on a stack of pillows. Your mouth attends to the BJ-ing while your hands are free to touch yourself or, even easier, lie back and let a toy handle you.

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The Prop Engine

Use the power of physics and prop a largish vibrator between a mattress and box springs or the cushion and frame of a soft couch or chair. The toy will tend to you (thrusting against it is sexy too) and you’ll have your hands free to add to that glorious on-your-knees BJ you’re giving.

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​ The Hump and Blow

If you’re a humper, prop a pillow between your legs, slip a lubed hand down between your legs and slide back and forth over it as you suck on him. If you need more power, invest in a toy mount that will hold a Magic Wand or DIY it and stick a l’il something between two pillows, pressing them together with your knees.

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The Yin Yang Edge

Avoid that weird 69 zone where you’re simultaneously giving and receiving yet not doing either properly by trading off. Torture him by bringing him juuuuust to the brink of orgasm then switch. (High fives optional.) Lie in a sideways 69 position so that when the other person cuts you off, you barely have to move to immediately translate all your passion back to them via your mouth.

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The Double-Down

Have him stand and strip his pants off. Kneel before him, kissing your way up his inner thigh giving him to time to appreciate the always-glorious male moment of “Oh my god, this gorgeous woman is about to suck my dick!” As you go to town on him, ride gently on a dildo or press a vibrator against yourself. You may want to look into a rabbit-style dildo vibe with an attached part that buzzes against your clit, if you’re into both internal and external stimulation.

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Open Wide and Say “Ahhhh”

For something raunchier (and waaaaaay more satisfying) than 69, raise your hips up and away from his mouth and let him use his fingers or a favorite toy on your womanly parts. This is great for you (see: previous sentence with the fingers and/or toy) and pretty insane for him as well. Between the upside-down BJ and completely hot close-up view of your naughty bits, you are making memories, aka future masturbation fodder.

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If you’re in plain ol’ BJ position but get too turned on and need to do something for yourself — like, right away — straddle one of his thighs and grind against his leg. This is extra amazing if you are wet and he can feel your slipperiness as you rub on him — he’ll be even happier than he already was just getting oral. And gently stimulating your clit with his body will make you happier than just bobbing up and down on his junk.

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The Mouth Off

If you like to play with power dynamics, lie on your back and let him mount your mouth, with his head pointed toward your feet. If he supports his body weight with his arms, you are free to do what you please with your hands. Work your fingers between your legs and go to town — any additional moans you may let out are an added bonus for him in this position. When you’re surrendering control of the depth of penetration, make sure you let him know if he’s going too deep or you just don’t like it or whatever. This one is ideal for people who enjoy rough play.

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The Stick Shift

Sometimes seeing your partner get super hard for you gives you the overwhelming urge to hop on that thing. So do it. Climb aboard for a few long, slow sexy thrusts before sliding off and taking him in your mouth again. If you are both into to the tastes of sex, he will absolutely love seeing you taste yourself on him. (It’s a personal thing, though one you might find worth trying. But hey, I’ll stay out of your bed. Somewhat.) Alternate using your mouth and riding him, as needed, guiding his hand to your clit when you’re on his lap. Alternating will also make him last longer, which benefits everyone.

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